Sunday, June 28, 2020

God Loves Becoming - Remarks by Rabbi Larry and Rhonda Karol at the Retirement Event and Tribute by Temple Beth-El Las Cruces on June 25, 2020

The prayer comes from the Mishkan T’filah prayerbook - it was written by Rabbi Norman Hirsh. 

The rest is from Rhonda and me. 


ONCE OR TWICE in a lifetime, 

a man or woman may choose a radical leaving, 

having heard Lech l’cha — Go forth. 

God disturbs us toward our destiny by hard events 

and by freedom’s now urgent voice 

which explode and confirm who we are. 

We don’t like leaving, but God loves becoming.


We sometimes leave what was familiar

To become familiar with something new. 

We may physically leave one place 

But we do not leave behind 

Fond memories

Partnerships 

Achievements 

Shared holidays and life events 

Sorrows

and Joys.  

We may stay in one place 

Leaving behind the responsibilities of one position

Only to assume a new and significant role

Which does not disconnect us from people or our past.  

We carry everyone and everything with us

Because each of us is the product of all of our experiences 

And relationships:  family, friends, congregants, 

And fellow travelers on our journeys.   


ONCE OR TWICE in a lifetime, 

a man or woman may choose a radical leaving, 

having heard Lech l’cha — Go forth. 

God disturbs us toward our destiny by hard events 

and by freedom’s now urgent voice 

which explode and confirm who we are. 

We don’t like leaving, but God loves becoming.


Lech l’cha 

l’chi lach

We have gone forth.

What have we become? 

Graduates

Jewish professionals

Friends 

Spouses

Travelers

Residents of a Capital City 

Parents

Passengers on the train in Gage Park 

Explorers

Nearby adult children

A family of Chiefs, Royals and Jayhawk fans

Musical theater devotees for the young star in the family

A Jewish singer/songwriter  

A teacher and storyteller 

Veteran Religious School faculty members

A proud mom and dad at two graduations 

Seacoast dwellers a short drive from the ocean, some family and friends, outlet malls, and great ice cream, with mounds of snow gracing our yard,

Suddenly, southwestern desert dwellers at Israel’s latitude

Bearers of new allergies 

Seekers of new doctors, hairdressers, and a place to find fresh Challah for Shabbat 

Apprentice Appreciators of New Mexico chile, so please don’t ask about the color 

Fans of gypsum dunes at White Sands

Spectators of beautiful sunsets from our patio, resulting in galleries of photo memories 

Celebrants at a snowy winter wedding

Proud mother-in-law

Proud father-in-law

60 year-olds

Still teachers of children and adults

Still learners from adults and children

Still community servants 

Still friends making friends 

Grandparents connected with family through wondrous technology 

Home dwellers in the face of a new challenge, trying to stay safe and healthy

Zoom-masters 

Hopefully, thankful, patient and flexible souls as our plans changed 

65 year-olds

Who have come to the conclusion of a chapter but not the end of a journey. 

Reflections of those who came before us, who left us their legacies, on whose shoulders we stand

Builders and givers to a future 

For peers and for a new generation 

To learn, to teach, to care and to grow. 


We don’t like leaving 

But God loves becoming.  

May all of us be blessed 

With courage,

The power to let go of the familiar, 

As we tread new paths 

While not losing our treasured connections

And while helping one another, always,

To walk with hope.  

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