Sunday, May 12, 2024

Golden Rule applies to neighbors near and far - May 13, 2016 - Las Cruces Bulletin

 I read with interest and appreciation the column entitled “Rethinking Jewish-Christian Relationships,” by Father Gabriel Rochelle, in the Las Cruces Bulletin issue of April 22, 2016.  His sentiments resonate with much of what I have learned over the years, beginning with courses in my rabbinical seminary training and my experiences in interfaith programming and study.

    The “excellent commentary on the New Testament by Jewish scholars” to which Father Gabriel referred is The Jewish Annotated New Testament, edited by Amy-Jill Levine (of Vanderbilt University) and Marc Zvi Brettler and published in 2011 by Oxford University Press.  This book could serve as a basis for a community-wide discussion of values that emerge from specific sacred and moral texts which can set parameters for human behavior.

    Recent events have led me to think the centrality of Leviticus 19:18, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” in Judaism and in Christianity.  In Matthew Chapter 22, Jesus is said to identify that verse from Leviticus as the second of the two greatest commandments (along with “you shall love the Lord your God” from Deuteronomy Chapter 6).    

    A second century rabbi, Akiba, cited “Love your neighbor as yourself” as the fundamental principle in the Torah, which embodied and, in some cases, superseded, all of the other commandments. 

     Any discussion of this classic ethical statement, whether in a religious or secular context, should include a consideration of how to define “neighbor.”   In an article in the Jewish Annotated New Testament, Dr. Michael Fagenblat of the Van Leer Jerusalem Institute explained that the Hebrew word for neighbor in that verse, “ray-a,” can “designate any human being or denote a person with whom one has an intimate relationship, such as a friend.”      It seems that, 2000 years ago, the Jewish community and the early Christian community may have applied this commandment primarily to members of one’s own immediate faith group. 

     However, neither Jews nor Christians could ultimately ignore a second pronouncement from Leviticus Chapter 19 which widened a possible “circle of love”: “The stranger who resides with you shall be to you as the citizen among you; you shall love the stranger as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” 

    This additional commandment can lead us to another guiding principle that has been expressed in many faiths and cultures.

     That principle is the “golden rule,” which advises all human beings on HOW to act AS a neighbor.  Rabbi Hillel stated the golden rule in this way, “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor.  That is the central teaching of my heritage.  The rest is commentary.”

      Matthew Chapter 7 quoted Jesus’ expression of this tenet: “In everything do to others as you would have them do to you.” An online search of “golden rule statements” will yield many more examples.

    So, now, we teach “treat others as you want to be treated” as a basic value to apply to our daily lives.  It is one that we sometimes remember, and one that we often forget.   The golden rule has a way of pulling the command to “love your neighbor” out of the realm of one’s own group and into the broader circle of all humanity, making every person in this world a potential neighbor. 

    Admittedly, the divisions within and between nations make it difficult to practice this principle, but try, we must.   Through thoughtful discussions, through the telling of our stories, and through truly listening to one another, we will continue to walk upon a path of love and respect that many have tread before us. 

   

Tuesday, May 7, 2024

Infuse our response with love - Daily Minyan Reading - May 7, 2024

This is a message to some of my past social justice partners who, I hope, will listen to multiple narratives and try to put them together into a strategy to create allies who can forge a way forward to peace.   Listening goes both ways, and don’t label some an oppressor when you have not heard their stories from their mouths.   
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Facebook Live Daily Minyan Original Reading 
The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah
May 7, 2024

Author of freedom, 
Fashioner of peace,
Wellspring of compassion, 
When we see despair within the human family, 
Guide us to offer support and hope. 
When we recognize people acting only out of hatred, 
Infuse our response with love from a place of strength. 
When we feel that darkness is encompassing our days, 
Inspire us to be sources of light at all times, 
Offering seeds of respect and understanding 
That will blossom into cooperation and partnership. 
When we sense that others do not truly hear us 
As we tell our ancient and modern stories, 
May we speak in soft voices and melodic tones
That will resonate with their tales of challenge
And bring us closer together. 
Shelter us, Eternal One, within Your care
And Your Oneness that encompasses us all.

Thursday, May 2, 2024

God who watches over our journeys - Daily Minyan original reading - May 2, 2024

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The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah

May 2, 2024


God who watches over our journeys, 

From morning to evening, 

And night to the new day, 

Keep our eyes and minds focused

On the values that flow from our faith

And our heritage:

  • Care for creation and all life 
  • Compassion 
  • Respect for humanity
  • Love of neighbor and stranger
  • Honesty 
  • Honor
  • Humility 
  • Hope for a better future.

May the divisions that separate us

Disappear enough 

To encourage dialogue 

To engender cooperation 

To foster a sense of oneness

And to make possible 

True and complete peace. 

Monday, April 29, 2024

There, we will sing - Torah introduction for song at the Sea- April 29, 2024

Original Torah introduction to my chanting of Exodus 15:1-11 at the Passover Yizkor Service for The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah and Congregation Beth Torah on April 29, 2024.    

    Recent months have given me a new perspective on the quote in the Mishkan T’filah prayerbook, taken from this passage in Michael Walzer’s book, Exodus and Revolution, and paraphrased here:  “Wherever you live, it is probably Egypt;  there is a better place, and the way to that place, that land, is through the wilderness.” 



       Lately, I feel that we are probably not in Egypt, but in the process of crossing the sea, walking between the towers of water on the dry sea bed.  Behind us is the narrow place, Egypt, Mitzrayim, representing the darkness of hatred and oppression, which seems to pursue us.  Even when facing such challenge, we are still able to find each other and share our inner strength.  Ahead of us, on the other side, are the lights of freedom, understanding, joy and hope.    We make it across, rejoice and sing.   
      Sometime later in our ongoing Jewish journey, the cycle repeats.  What is important is not that the cycle ends, but that that we remain resilient, persistent, and strong, due to our faith that the Oneness of God and humanity will always envelop us and remain within our reach.   And, as the reading in Mishkan T’filah says, we will get to the promised light and land only by joining hands, marching together, and there, we will sing, once again.




Thursday, April 25, 2024

I am like an Israelite - Daily Minyan Reading - April 25, 2024

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The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah
April 25, 2024

As the sun descends at the end of 
Another day of our festival of freedom, 
I am like an Israelite walking on dry land
Between the towers of waters on either side
With our long line of brothers and sisters, 
Generations longing for liberty. 
Above are the dark clouds and swirling winds
holding the sea in place as we step forward. 
The pursuers chasing us
 represent the oppression and despair
That we left behind in Egypt 
And the darkness there in which we still found each other
And sustained our collective strength. 
The light ahead as we cross this sea bed
Signifies the promise of our future 
Knowing that there may be pursuers yet to come
But we will elude them once again 
Because of our persistent hope 
That, whether in light or darkness, 
We can still find within the family of humanity
People who share our belief 
that a Oneness holds us together.  
May that Oneness continue to guide us now. 

Saturday, April 20, 2024

Two weeks - A Journey - April 20, 2024

Shabbat
Cosmos
Story Time 
A Train 
A Ketubah 
A Letter 
A Bell 
A Seder

   This is the story of the last two weeks, with world news as the backdrop and undercurrent of our adventures and celebrations. 
SHABBAT 
    Rhonda and I traveled to Lawrence, Kansas, where I led a Shabbat Family Service for the Lawrence Jewish Community Congregation.   The place was familiar and some of the faces were the same as the last time I sang in that particular space in 2006.  I have always been so impressed at the community preserving its unique identity across generations and among long-times and new members, all who demonstrate a sense of responsibility for the continuity of their special kehillah.   They sang with me melodies that were familiar and new, and we were warmed by the spirit of Shabbat in that holy space.  
COSMOS
  We didn’t see a full solar eclipse, but the 89.5% with which nature graced us demonstrated the happenstance design of the solar/lunar dance, through which the new moon covers the sun in such a way as to reveal its corona.   This year, the eclipse was a reminder that the coming 15th day of the lunar orbit/month would bring the beginning of the Jewish holiday of Passover.  We saw images of our eclipsed small star cast onto the ground through the leaves of nearby trees and through our special glasses as we sat with other residents of our apartment complex, feeling the cool breeze and noticing a slight decrease in daylight.   It was cosmic and communal all at the same time. 
STORY TIME 
    Six days later, we were with our granddaughter and grandson in their room while their parents were out for the night at a special event.   Rhonda expertly read a story for the young woman in the room, and the young man requested a book that called on me to read in person what I had recorded for him for his last birthday: the book A JEDI YOU WILL BE, which, of course was narrated on the pages by Yoda and, by me, in Yoda voice (which sounds a lot like Grover…hmm).   The smile on his face and the rapt attention of a the grandson in question was worth it! 
A TRAIN 
    Two days after that, we took a train from that place (Big Apple that it is) to the city of Brotherly (I like to say Siblingly) Love for a wedding.   Rhonda and I had not yet traveled via Amtrak in our nearly 42 years together.  We had some apprehension, given backs that have felt better than they do now, but the suitcases were cooperative as we stepped onto and rode down the escalator to the track, put the rolling spinner in the luggage compartment in our car, and kept the rolling garment bag with us.  The trip took us through scenery that included some trees, some residential areas, and some industry.   I was able to follow our hour-long route on my phone’s Maps app.  We arrived at the station on time and a taxi transported us to the hotel.   So this was officially a planes, train, and automobile trip, that was, fortunately not like the movie of the same name. 
A KETUBAH
    It had been some time since I signed a Ketubah as a witness.   The bride, whom I have known for over 25 years, requested my presence at the wedding in this capacity, as Rhonda and I had been present with her family when she became Bat Mitzvah and was confirmed at Temple in 10th grade, and as I had officiated at milestone occasions/moments for other members of her family.  Such continuity has great meaning on many levels, and the significance was not lost on me as I signed my Hebrew name on a beautiful, multi-colored document, after I had offered words of reminiscence and blessing the night before, and before Rhonda and I joined other friends from Topeka and many other family and friends to join in collective witness of this union of two amazing people.   
A LETTER 
Rhonda and I visited the Weitzman National Museum of American Jewish History in Philadelphia on the day of the wedding.   What stays with me from the featured exhibits is the letter from President George Washington to the “Hebrew Congregation of Newport, Rhode Island.”   The sentiments were expressed with sincerity and humility, asserting that the United States is not a country where people are “tolerated,” but welcomed, and that what is required of them is to show themselves to be good citizens.   Washington’s use of the biblical phrase from the book of Micah always leaves an impact on me: “ May the Children of the Stock of Abraham, who dwell in this land, continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other Inhabitants; while every one shall sit in safety under his own vine and figtree, and there shall be none to make him afraid.”  His wish is mine as well: that everyone now would try to work through their disagreements in a way that just might bring the peace and well-being that would drive out hatred and despair. 
A BELL
It was my third time to cast my eyes on the actual Liberty Bell.  I have seen the replicas of the bell at the Harry S. Truman Presidential Library and Museum, in the Kansas State Capitol building, and in Liberty Bell Park in Jerusalem.   Its presence is quietly imposing.   As I sat in a summit on antisemitism in Kansas City two days letter, I thought about the promise of liberty on which I have placed great faith throughout my life, and which, now, at times, feels more precarious due to world events.  Along with THE LETTER from above, the BELL offers a reminder not to give up on working for freedom, even when some may ascribe to me and my identity an aura of oppression.  I refuse to take up that mantle that others would impose on me, but, instead, to insist that in-person dialogue, which is based on listening and honesty, is the only way we will discover how to work together. 
A SEDER
Passover has not begun, but I led a Seder this week at a senior living community where my first cousin had resided for many years until her death two years ago.  The attendees included a Holocaust survivor, people originally from this area and other cities, some who were Jewish and some who were from other faith communities.   With music and characteristic readings and rituals, we told the story of the Israelites moving from slavery to freedom.  This event offered my first taste of matzah for the year, and I took the opportunity to share a melody for one of the Seder songs that came from my family tradition, a tune that likely has its roots in the small town in Lithuania where the Karols lived.   So, there we were, in an open area, observing the coming Jewish holiday, singing and reading where others could see and hear us.   I felt that the seder demonstrated that freedom is still very much present and its persistence is possible if we do the necessary work and take courageous steps forward. 
  Shabbat.  Cosmos. Story Time. A Train. A Ketubah.  A Letter.  A Bell.  A Seder. 
  Celebrations. Generations. Connections. Family. Freedom.  Joy.  
   And a prayer that captives will come home, that conflicts will subside, and that the desire for control will be overcome by the power of partnership, love, compassion and cooperation.   
   So may it be.  
  
    






Thursday, April 18, 2024

Diligently Walking Forward to Freedom- Daily Minyan Reading - April 17, 2023

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The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah
April 17, 2024

Author of Freedom, 
We walk with you along a path towards a promised land
Where equality is within our reach
Where mutual understanding is an achievement and not merely a goal
Where respect comes naturally for people of all ages
Where peace results from nonviolent conflict resolution 
Where oppression of anyone is out of the question for everyone 
Where unkind and cruel words are replaced with expressions 
Of generosity and compassion 
Where despair swiftly gives way to hope 
Where, when we are in a position of needing to cross a turbulent sea, 
We will be able to do so because we will easily and diligently walk forward with one another, step by step. 
Eternal One, please walk alongside us with support and love
As day turns to night 
And as the dawn arrives with new and nourishing light.