One-word reflections from the Temple Beth-El Las Cruces community on Chanukah 5778 - 12/15/2017

One-word reflections from the Temple Beth-El Las Cruces community on Chanukah 5778 - 12/15/2017

Light
Gratitude
Perseverance
Brightness
Lights
Triumph
Hope
Family
Endurance
Remembrance
Miracle
Survival
Continuity
Festival
Tradition
Freedom
Pride
Empowerment
Enlightening
Pride
Dedication
Responsibility
Commitment
Focus

Bring us together - A Prayer Based on Parashat Vayigash - December 22, 2017

Eternal One,

Source of wisdom for those who learn and teach,

Wellspring of hope for those who seek help,

Soul of the Universe who envelops all creation,

Bring us together.

As Joseph found his brothers again,

And as they learned to dwell close to each other,

To accept one another,

To trust that they would treat each other with respect,

Lead us to find each other.

When we have different views, open our eyes and ears to honestly speak about our perspectives.

When we come from different backgrounds, enable us to truly listen to each other’s stories to broaden our horizons.

When we see people putting up walls between each other, open our minds and hearts to realize that we cannot come together unless those walls are never created in the first place.

When we sense that that too many people are being written out of the human family, heighten our senses and our sensitivity to discover the divine spark in everyone. 

When we feel ourselves welling up with anger at the wrongs we witness around us, turn our rage into resolve to change the world for the better and to lead people towards one another in a spirit of understanding where disagreeing agreeably can move towards solutions not yet imaginable.

May You, Creator and Sustainer of us all, heal our divisions, dispel our doubts,

And bless us with faith in ourselves and in each other,

So that we can live and thrive in this world where we are neighbors

Fashioned in your holy image.  

Amen. 

What we learn, what we see...on Chanukah - Column for Temple Beth-El Las Cruces Adelante Newsletter - December 2017

What do we learn from the freedom that the Maccabees won in their time? 
• They resisted the tyranny of a ruler and regime that sought to impose one culture, one belief, and one approach to life on everyone. 
• They demonstrated that power that lacks inspiration and purpose, but only seeks control, will not last.
 • They turned the perceived need among some of their fellow Jews to acquiesce to cultural pressures around them into an affirmation that it’s all right to be different. 
• They acted with courage in the face of great odds and what might have been certain defeat. 
• They kept their vision focused on what was holy to them: their values, their tradition, their rituals, their community, and their God. 
• They persisted in engendering hope at a hopeless time. 

What do we see in the lights we light on the Chanukiah? 
• We first see the history of each chanukiah we light: when it came into our home, who lit the candles on it over the years, why that particular chanukiah design bore significance for the family, and, perhaps, photographs of lighting the candles from year to year, and how Chanukah itself marks the passing of our heritage from one generation to the next. 
• We see the joy that we know in our own lives that comes from warming relationships with family and friends. 
• We see connections between us and the Jews around the world who are also lighting their Chanukiot. 
• We acknowledge that our celebration is one of many in December, which provides us with an opportunity to build bridges of understanding. 
• We look into the lights on the Chanukiah and see the guidance and wisdom of Judaism that has sustained us until now and can still nourish us with its teachings about compassion, commitment, justice, hope and peace. 
• We learn from using the Shamash to light the other candles that service is crucial to assuring that the lights of any society or nation, in the form of well-being for all people, will burn brightly. 
• We see the various colors of the flames, reminding us of the diversity of humankind that has a way of moving people towards coexistence out of necessity and, ultimately, out of love. 
• We watch the candles burn and feel their warmth, knowing that we can exude that same warmth through hospitality and generosity of spirit. 
May our celebration of Chanukah in 5778 lead us to a special place in ourselves and with each other. As the lights of Chanukah are holy, may we reflect that holiness in our lives through all we do. Happy Chanukah! 

To be remembered as one of the good guys - Column for Las Cruces Bulletin - December 1, 2017

At a recent memorial service for a congregant, the program prepared by the family highlighted values that were central to the life and character of their loved one: kindness, patience, wisdom, optimism, and fairness. In their brief eulogies, members of the family explained how he had demonstrated these traits in a consistent way throughout his life. When the sharing of recollections was opened up to everyone present, one community member offered his comments in the form of a conversation with the man who died, telling him that he was “one of the good guys.” That is what made him so special.
We need people of good character to assure that our society, our nation, and our world will move forward in a positive direction.
The memorial service was held several hours after Temple Beth-El had hosted its annual pre-thanksgiving Interfaith conversation on the afternoon of November 19, 2017. This year, the theme was “People of Character: What Does It take to be a mensch (a decent human being)?” At the program, I shared the “Periodic Table of Character Strengths” prepared for Global Character Day, marked this year on September 13 and founded by film-maker and innovator Tiffany Schlain (featured in my September column).
What was most important about the November 19 program was that we had representatives of several faith groups speak on values which, we believe, are central to good character.
Pastor Jared Carson of Peace Lutheran Church presented his views on persistence. He used biblical examples (Jacob of the Hebrew Bible and Joseph of the New Testament) and shared a poignant personal story that reflected this value.
Deb Rodgers of the Baha’is of Las Cruces shared a personal experience that recounted kindness shown to someone in a communal setting who needed encouragement.
The Rev. Carol Tuck spoke about truth and its varying permutations in our society, seeking to uphold a reverence for honesty and forthright presentation of current events so that we can find a way to live with each other in a spirit of integrity.
Kelley Williams of the Islamic Center of Las Cruces spoke about law, justice, and mercy, noting how religion seeks to strike a balance between all three.
Sonoma Springs Covenant Church pastor Rob Reed spoke on perspective, using the New Testament image from Hebrews of life as a marathon race to be run, with eyes fixed on God and a pace that is holy, honest, humble and healing.
I spoke about compassion/mercy, beginning with the suggestion of the book of Exodus to adopt a positive approach towards the stranger and even to one’s enemy, and also addressing how Judaism seeks to give mercy an edge over an approach of strict justice.
When we broke into small groups for further discussion, attendees shared their impressions of the presentations and built on what they heard to engage in new conversations about how we can work together to encourage everyone to explore how to cultivate character strengths in themselves.
What most impressed us was that, amid the diversity of the teachings of the faiths represented, there was a definite resonance about what builds good character, about what it takes to be a “mensch.”
As we enter a month with important annual holiday celebrations, may our gatherings lead us to consider how our rituals and customs can teach us how to continue to be people of character who value kindness and goodness in a world that needs the best that we have to give.

Our Vision, Our House of God - D'var Torah - Parashat Vayeitzei - November 24, 2017

 

Beth-El.

House of God.

This is where we are

Every week

Or maybe a few times a week

For some of us....every day.

What happens here can be inspirational

Educational

Worshipful

Or regular and ordinary, anything from maintenance and administration

To turning lights on and off. 

But it’s still the house of God.

So Jacob left his home after receiving the first born son’s blessing

Though he was a second-born

Incurring the wrath of his twin brother Esau

But fulfilling the desires and design of his mother Rebekah, who believed she was making God’s will come to pass.

She was probably right that it would be Jacob to carry on the spiritual legacy of the family.

Part of that legacy would be shaped as he set out on his own,

And laid down in a particular place for a night.

He set stones as a headrest

And dreamed.

There was a ladder reaching to the sky with angels going up and down on it.

And God stood with him, right next to him,

Telling him,

“I will give this land to your descendants, who shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall spread out to the west and the east and the north and the south. Through you and your descendants all the families of the earth shall find blessing. And here I am, with you: I will watch over you wherever you go, and I will bring you back to this soil. I will not let go of you as long as I have yet to do what I have promised you.״

Jacob awoke from this night-vision. 

He was scared, excited, inspired and hopeful all at once.

He realized.....the place was a BEIT EIL, a house of God, and this house of God was a gateway or stairway to heaven....or to the divine.

How did Jacob know that God hadn’t been with him all along?

What was important was that, as he was alone, away from home, just when Jacob was feeling the most vulnerable, 

God’s presence in his life came clear to him. 

The floodgates of truth and spirit had been opened for him. 

Even without a name change - that would come later- Jacob was different. 

“Surely God was in this place and I, I did not know,” he said.

At this point, he knew, and would count on God’s support

For the rest of his life.

How do we know that a divine presence doesn’t accompany us along our life’s journey? 

How do we know that our BEIT EIL - our congregation, Beth El, isn’t, for us, a gateway to heaven

A connection to the divine

Through our prayers

Through our study

Through our building of community

Through the ways in which we try to engender in one another

The values of respect, justice, compassion, kindness, and peace?

How do we know that every word we say, inside and outside this building, doesn’t count in God’s eyes and in the eyes of others?

God is in this place and sometimes, we, we do not know.

But if we remembered, and recognized God’s presence every minute, every day,

we, like Jacob, might be changed.

In our own personal and communal vision, may the angels above us lead us to new heights, lofty goals, and high standards for who we are, what we do, and who we can become. 

PHOTOS:

Above - Genesis Window with the Ladder in Jacob's dream theme at Temple Beth Sholom, Topeka, KS

Below - Neir Tamid/Eternal Light with Ladder in Jacob's dream theme at Temple Beth-El, Las Cruces, NM

 

Invocation for Temple Beth-El Las Cruces Board Meeting on November 16, 2017 - based on the “Hashkiveinu” prayer

This was created for a writing session led by Stacey Zisook Robinson at Shabbat Shira at Olin-Sang-Ruby Union Institute in Oconomowoc, Wisconsin on Friday, November 3.

It’s night time.
It has been a long day, Eternal One.
Sometimes we can find shelter and hope in the people around us.
Sometimes that may not be possible.
We may find some light, but, even in a familiar place, there may be too much darkness.
At those times, open our eyes and minds and hearts.
Help us.
Protect us.
Assure us that the darkness of the world will be flooded with light as morning comes,
So that we will have faith that any darkness in the human soul
will be touched and brightened by the light of your face and presence.
May Your loving spirit, Your peace, Your strength
be with us here, in Y’rushalayim, a city that needs peace,
and throughout the world.
Amen.

Body and Soul - A Twins Tale Begins - D'var Torah for Parashat Tol'dot - November 17, 2017

Two children.

Two boys.

Each with a body.

Each with a soul.

The body houses the soul.

The soul enlivens the body.

And we all strive, in our lives, to strike a balance,

And to integrate the two together.

Two children, two boys:

One, from the start, seems to focus on the body:

Strength, grit, power, physical stature.

The other is a tent-sitter, staying close to home

Contemplating the significance of his life, his soul,

Grabbing onto the heel of his brother as they emerged from the womb.

Was that a sign of dependence, or an indication

Of a wrestling match and rivalry to come?

Each was to become a great nation,

Full of body and soul,

But each had to find that balance.

Two children, two boys.

The one loved by the father came home from a hard day

And the one loved by the mother, preparing a stew,

Demanded to be sold his brother’s birthright.

Is this transaction one that shows that one is all body

And the other all soul…or is there more to it?

As their mother arranged for her tent-sitter son

To receive a blessing that would bestow on him the soul

Of their people-to-be,

She acted based on her belief of what she heard God say

Before the birth of the boys:  “The older will serve the younger.”

Yet, life has a way of seeking equilibrium, as the same statement from God

Could mean “The older, the younger will serve.’

It could be that both were true,

In the same way that both children had in them a balance of body and soul

That each would eventually achieve and maintain at a later time.

The younger son. whom the mother loved donned skins to simulate his brother’s ruddy arms

To receive the first-born blessing.

The older son, who approached his father for blessing, discovered, much to his surprise, that the first born blessing had been bestowed on his brother.

And he let out a cry.  He pleaded for a blessing.   

Yes, he, too, had a soul,

He, too, desired to take his father’s words into the future as a guarantee of his well-being.

But he was angry.

Two children.  Two boys.

One who had taken a birthright and blessing for the first-born who would find that there were consequences that would require him to find a balance between body and soul, between sheer strength and deep faith, between power and trust.  

The other who had focused on one aspect of life at the expense of another, now resolved to amass power for himself, but also to seek the independence noted in the words his father said to him, in such a way that he would find his soul.

How do we know what will happen?

In the Torah, there is always more to come.

Stay tuned!

God of My Life - Online “Hidden Track” based on life and Psalm 71

This is about....
Hope
Aging
Community
Perseverance
Persistence
And more.  
Feel free to eavesdrop on my thoughts and feelings.


CLICK THIS LINK FOR THE SONG: 

Larry Karol sings “God of My Life”

God of My Life (Larry Karol- Copyright 2017) 

She told me once I paid my dues

I’d be up on that stage

Now years have passed and I’m down here

Getting better still with age

I may be a guarded secret 

Not a legend in my mind

It’s the reason for this journey 

That I’m hoping yet to find

God of my life Stand with me as I walk along my way

No matter what lies ahead - Sustain my soul today (2x) 

Sometimes my words escape me

And I fear they won’t return

So I play all my old favorites 

While the embers slowly burn

I don’t want to be a rock star

In a music Hall of fame 

There’s no treasure more important

Than to keep my own good name 

God of my life Stand with me. as I walk along my way

No matter what lies ahead   Sustain my soul today  (2x)

You may say I’m past my prime 

I started all too late

And that good things almost never come 

to those of us who wait 

You won’t believe it when I tell you 

that I’m younger than I seem

As long as I am breathing

 I’ll be reaching for my dream

God of my life Stand with me. as I walk along my way

No matter what lies ahead - Sustain my soul today (2x)

Don’t You let my footsteps falter - Open my eyes wide to see

The wonders all around this world, the miracles in me 

God of my life Stand with me. as I walk along my way

No matter what lies ahead - Sustain my soul today (2x)

A "mensch meditation" - invocation for Board meeting at Temple Beth-El Las Cruces on October 19, 2017

Eternal God, You have shown us what is good and

what it is to do good.

   Be our strength when we commit ourselves to honesty in a world that may not always appreciate the truth.

  Be our beacon when we try to pursue an ethical standard of behavior that is based on integrity and decency when some people in our world may have lost their way.

  Be our inspiration when we seek to be considerate and kind towards others and may our kindness spread throughout our community and beyond.

  Be our guide when we apply all that we have learned about living with people to approach everyone in a spirit of fairness and justice.

   Be our support when we seek forgiveness and when we forgive others so that all may know inner peace and wholeness.

   Be our mentor when we seek to share what we have, so that we will give unselfishly, with consistency, and without hesitation, no matter where we may be or what we are doing.

   Be our teacher when we discover that there are rewards that will come our way when we act with humility and when our words and actions are the result of thoughtful deliberation.

   Be our hope, encouraging us to always live up to our own aspirations for the many ways in which we can improve ourselves and the world.

The gift of song may unite us as one - Column for Las Cruces Bulletin - November 3, 2017

   There is a place in the world of Facebook that was created as a refuge where people could come together to share, and benefit from, the gift of song.

     Last fall, Jewish singer/songwriters Beth Schafer and Stacy Beyer laid the groundwork for “Harmony in Unison,” a “virtual stage” on Facebook, where musicians have been performing original music since January on Sunday-Thursday each week.   

    In her book Einstein and the Rabbi, Rabbi Naomi Levy quoted a teaching of the rabbis that noted that “there are ten levels of prayer, and above them is song.” Music has the potential to enable our spirits to soar.

    On Monday, October 23, I offered my third performance on the Harmony in Unison Virtual Stage.   I titled my set “Conversations with God,” which gave me an opportunity to perform some of my original songs based on texts from the book of Psalms.

     The biblical book of Psalms brings together ancient songs and prayers that have had a lasting appeal because they speak to our joys, our love, our grief, and the challenges which we face every day.   Psalms declare that, even when everything may seem hopeless, there are still reasons to be optimistic and to trust that good things will come our way. 

    The first song I chose for my set, based on Psalm 139, begins, “You know me, inside and out, through and through.”   When a friend of mine, who wasn’t sure about her belief in God, once asked me about how to approach the book of Psalms, I cited this song (called “Where Can I Run?”) and Psalm.  I explained that it is the people who know us “inside and out, through and through” who have an uncanny ability to point us in right direction just when we need crucial counsel and guidance. I believe that there is a depth of spirit in our closest relationships, in which some people might see a touch of a divine presence.

    Psalm 34 includes a declaration, “Taste and see that God is good.”  That line suggests a way that we might approach life in general.  We try to strike a balance between our best times and our difficult days, hoping that it is the good that will endure. The chorus for the song I created based on that Psalm asks and proclaims: “Is there love enough for giving?  Is there goodness enough to fill our days?  When I taste and see that life’s worth living, I will sing this song of praise.”  The praise is an expression of the trust we have that our own lives do have inherent value because of all that we do and because of the people who are our companions along our journey. 

     Psalm 97 proclaims, “Light is sown for the righteous, and gladness for the upright in heart.”   What struck me about that statement is that it suggests that light -- perhaps in the form of understanding, wisdom, and mutual respect--is a response to our acts of righteousness and justice.  Creating a society based on justice and righteousness could lead us to the “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness” that we so deeply desire in American society. 

    Across many musical genres, singer/songwriters give voice to feelings, concerns and hopes that many people share.  May we be open to those harmonious expressions that can touch our souls and could, ultimately, unite us as one.