Tuesday, November 29, 2022
A Speaker in my own voice - a retirement reflection - November 29, 2022
An Oasis of Color in the Midst of Vast Darkness - Prayer for B’nai Jehudah Daily Minyan - November 29, 2022
Sunday, November 27, 2022
Use Wisdom When Voting for Our Leaders - Las Cruces Bulletin - November 2 2018
Las Cruces Bulletin - November 2, 2018
Use wisdom when voting for our leaders
On two Tuesdays in October, Temple Beth-El sponsored candidate forums for several local and statewide races. At each of these events, I offered a brief introduction based on insights from Jewish tradition.
At the first forum, I quoted from the prayer for our country in the prayer book of Conservative Judaism, Siddur Lev Shalem: “Our God and God of our ancestors ... RABBI KAROL Seeking Harmony may each of us fulfill our responsibilities of citizenship with care, generosity, and gratitude … May our … elected leaders … exercise their responsibilities with wisdom, fairness, and justice for all. Fill them with love and kindness and bless them that they may walk with integrity on the paths of peace and righteousness.”
At the second forum, I turned to Exodus Chapter 18. In that passage, Moses’ father-in -law, Jethro, encouraged his son-in-law to appoint deputies to help him lead the people and to serve as judges when disputes arose. Jethro suggested that these potential leaders be capable, trustworthy, and honest (spurning ill-gotten gain), and that they do right by God and by their fellow community members. I also shared insights from Leadership in Turbulent Times, a new book by Doris Kearns Goodwin, in which she chronicled the lives of four American Presidents: Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, Franklin Roosevelt, and Lyndon Johnson. Goodwin traced their development as leaders, describing, in detail, the traits they nurtured early on that stood them in good stead throughout their lives and careers. Early in his time in public life, Abraham Lincoln revealed “a number of traits associated with leadership – ambition, motivation, resoluteness, language skills, storytelling gifts, sociability.” He was also known for his adept use of humor. In one case, when his oratory led him to hurtfully mimic an opponent during a campaign event, Lincoln realized he had gone too far. He apologized, and Goodwin explained, “For years afterward, the memory of that night filled Lincoln ‘with the deepest chagrin.’ Increasingly, though not always, he was able to rein in his impulse to throw a hurtful counterpunch. He was after something more significant than the gratification of an artfully delivered humiliation.”
Theodore Roosevelt demonstrated, at the beginning of his political career, “a remarkable willpower, intellectual vitality, irrepressible liveliness, wide-ranging interests, and a growing gratification connecting with people from different backgrounds and stations in life.” He moved from, at first, focusing only on his views and opinions to realizing the benefits of collaborating with many legislative partners.
Franklin Roosevelt was bright and optimistic from his youth. He had a keen ability to look at a problem or challenge and work through its issues to arrive at a solution. His personality and temperament led him to connect with people in ways that drew them to him. Over the years, he learned the value of cooperation and humility.
Doris Kearns Goodwin recounted how Lyndon Johnson, as principal of an elementary school (during a year-long break from college) in Cotulla, Texas, “employed every leadership attribute he already possessed – indefatigable energy, ability to persuade, willingness to fight for what he wanted, intuition, enterprise, and initiative - to enlarge opportunities for his students and to improve their lives.” It was, according to Goodwin, empathy that drove Johnson’s work with the students and their families. At most any time, it is important to consider the essential traits that we want to see in ourselves and in the leaders we choose. May we always make our decisions related to leadership with understanding and wisdom.
Saturday, November 26, 2022
In El Paso, the signs and flowers spoke the truth - Las Cruces Bulletin - Column - October 3, 2019
I passed by the flowers, the signs, and the memorials near the Walmart in El Paso twice during the month of August.
The first time, on August 6, there were reporters, satellite dishes with mobile remote vans, chaplains, and people silently praying. There was a woman who was holding a sign that read, “Free Hugs.” I went up to her and said that her sign might be the most important one there.
We may not realize how much expressions of love and concern, including hugs, beginning with the earliest days in our lives, can enable us to build positive relationships and lead us to reject hatred and violence.
On August 3, in El Paso, Texas, and early on August 4, in Dayton, Ohio, two very different individuals, harboring a desire to commit violence, did not see human beings in front of them. They cared nothing for the people whose lives they abruptly ended.
El Paso and Dayton community members are moving forward while engaging in acts of remembrance and resolve.
People from Las Cruces joined their El Paso neighbors in a vigil held on the night of August 4 at Ponder Park. The City of Las Cruces organized a local gathering on August 5. About 60 people joined us at Temple Beth-El for a spiritual response and memorial service on August 7.
I joined my fellow Jewish singer/songwriter Alison Westermann in providing music at an event at the Las Americas Immigrant Advocacy Center on August 4. Manuel and Patricia Oliver, parents of Joaquin Oliver, one of the victims of the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, had already planned to visit El Paso so that Manuel could create a mural on the outside of the Center’s building. Participants in a nearby vigil in El Paso (to remember the shooting victims) marched in silence to the Las Americas Center for the mural dedication. Manuel Oliver finished his work with the words “El Paso No Esta Solo.”
Nor are we alone. When I again visited the memorial near the Walmart on August 22, I saw many signs that bore messages which encourage us to connect with one another to offer support and hope:
- Love still lives here
- We are the future and the future is full of love. Sincerely, the Youth of El Paso
- We will push back against boundless hate, and rebuild ourselves with boundless love.
- We are El Paso: White, Black, Mexican, Asian...Color doesn’t matter, Religion doesn’t matter. We love! We are united! We are together! We are family! We are one!
- Hate has no place! We will never forget!
- Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. (Martin Luther King, Jr.) I choose love!
- The Lord is close to the broken-hearted. He rescues those whose spirits are crushed (Psalm 34:18)
- Believe there is good in the world.
- Where there is hate, let us find love; where there is injury, let us find healing; where there is despair, let us find hope; where there is darkness, let us find light; where there is discord, let us find unity. (Based on a prayer of St. Francis of Assisi)
And if I were to add a sign of my own, I would say: “May we remove the borders and walls around our hearts so that we will walk, side-by-side, towards a place of true peace, soon, in our time.”
Tuesday, November 15, 2022
To sense the lingering light - Original reading for Daily Minyan - November 15, 2022
The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah
Overland Park, KS
Facebook Live Daily Minyan Original Reading
November 15, 2022
Wellspring of all existence,
Sustainer of our very lives,
As the darkness of night arrives
Open our eyes
And hearts
And Minds
to sense the lingering light
Within our souls
That moves us
To act with kindness
To spread hope
To teach decency
To lead with integrity
To speak with sincerity
To sing with joy and passion
And may that light
Bring hope to humanity
So that it will be encompassed and blessed
By the Oneness that binds the universe together
Within Your enduring presence.