Tuesday, November 29, 2022

A Speaker in my own voice - a retirement reflection - November 29, 2022

There were times when I could speak my mind and openly express my viewpoint, based on the values of my heritage. 
There were other times when those statements were seen as political rather than ethical, partisan instead of promoting respect and decency. 
At this time of my life, my words can be less constrained and more in keeping with the principles I have learned throughout my life. 
As much as possible, I hope to be, without restriction, 
A proponent for equality. 
An advocate for justice. 
A pursuer of peace. 
A defender of the truth while combating the current conspiracy theories that are hardly different than those that consigned my ancestors to oppression and, perhaps, even death. 
A protector of freedom of thought, expression, creativity, and full participation by all citizens in public life, including voting and assuming positions of leadership, where that freedom is based on mutual respect rather than on sowing division and seeking unbridled power.
A champion of understanding among people of different faiths, heritages, and backgrounds, so that fostering some semblance of unity will not be a pipe dream.  
A seeker of holiness in the human community through music, meditation, study and conversation.   
A sustainer of life on many levels, including the perpetuation of a natural environment that will endure for the benefit of the generations to come. 
A teacher of the tenets that have guided me, and a learner from others of the lessons in the unfolding of their life stories. 
A singer and creator of songs that exude joy, spirit, optimism and deep meaning.  
A human being who will continue to recognize and celebrate the Oneness that binds us all together within this amazing universe, encompassing all of us with love.  
And, always, a speaker in my own voice.

An Oasis of Color in the Midst of Vast Darkness - Prayer for B’nai Jehudah Daily Minyan - November 29, 2022

Facebook Live Daily Minyan
the Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah 
OP, Kansas
Original reading
November 29, 2022

Creator of the earth,
The Sun, the moon, the planets, the sky full of stars
And the paths in which they all traverse,
Open our eyes and minds to adopt the vantage point
Of space travelers imaginary and real
In which our world would appear as an orb 
Marked with the blue of the oceans and the white wisps of clouds, 
The place that is our home
Shared with all types of living things 
And people from many backgrounds. 
May that spherical image of blue and white, 
An oasis of color in the midst of vast darkness,
Remind us of our commonality 
Our equality 
And our responsibility 
To preserve this earth, 
to serve the human family, 
To extend a helping hand to people in need
And to support everyone who would attempt to bring to the inhabitants of this earth
Hope, sustenance, security, and peace. 
May Your Oneness and the divine image You have implanted within us
Enable us to recognize Your constant, loving presence among us 
And throughout this incredible universe.

Sunday, November 27, 2022

Use Wisdom When Voting for Our Leaders - Las Cruces Bulletin - November 2 2018


Las Cruces Bulletin - November 2, 2018


Use wisdom when voting for our leaders


 On two Tuesdays in October, Temple Beth-El sponsored candidate forums for several local and statewide races. At each of these events, I offered a brief introduction based on insights from Jewish tradition. 

     At the first forum, I quoted from the prayer for our country in the prayer book of Conservative Judaism, Siddur Lev Shalem: “Our God and God of our ancestors ... RABBI KAROL Seeking Harmony may each of us fulfill our responsibilities of citizenship with care, generosity, and gratitude … May our … elected leaders … exercise their responsibilities with wisdom, fairness, and justice for all. Fill them with love and kindness and bless them that they may walk with integrity on the paths of peace and righteousness.”

    At the second forum, I turned to Exodus Chapter 18. In that passage, Moses’ father-in -law, Jethro, encouraged his son-in-law to appoint deputies to help him lead the people and to serve as judges when disputes arose. Jethro suggested that these potential leaders be capable, trustworthy, and honest (spurning ill-gotten gain), and that they do right by God and by their fellow community members.  I also shared insights from Leadership in Turbulent Times, a new book by Doris Kearns Goodwin, in which she chronicled the lives of four American Presidents: Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, Franklin Roosevelt, and Lyndon Johnson. Goodwin traced their development as leaders, describing, in detail, the traits they nurtured early on that stood them in good stead throughout their lives and careers.  Early in his time in public life, Abraham Lincoln revealed “a number of traits associated with leadership – ambition, motivation, resoluteness, language skills, storytelling gifts, sociability.” He was also known for his adept use of humor. In one case, when his oratory led him to hurtfully mimic an opponent during a campaign event, Lincoln realized he had gone too far. He apologized, and Goodwin explained, “For years afterward, the memory of that night filled Lincoln ‘with the deepest chagrin.’ Increasingly, though not always, he was able to rein in his impulse to throw a hurtful counterpunch. He was after something more significant than the gratification of an artfully delivered humiliation.”              

      Theodore Roosevelt demonstrated, at the beginning of his political career, “a remarkable willpower, intellectual vitality, irrepressible liveliness, wide-ranging interests, and a growing gratification connecting with people from different backgrounds and stations in life.” He moved from, at first, focusing only on his views and opinions to realizing the benefits of collaborating with many legislative partners.

      Franklin Roosevelt was bright and optimistic from his youth. He had a keen ability to look at a problem or challenge and work through its issues to arrive at a solution. His personality and temperament led him to connect with people in ways that drew them to him. Over the years, he learned the value of cooperation and humility.

     Doris Kearns Goodwin recounted how Lyndon Johnson, as principal of an elementary school (during a year-long break from college) in Cotulla, Texas, “employed every leadership attribute he already possessed – indefatigable energy, ability to persuade, willingness to fight for what he wanted, intuition, enterprise, and initiative - to enlarge    opportunities for his students and to improve their lives.” It was, according to Goodwin, empathy that drove Johnson’s work with the students and their families. At most any time, it is important to consider the essential traits that we want to see in ourselves and in the leaders we choose. May we always make our decisions related to leadership with understanding and wisdom. 


Saturday, November 26, 2022

In El Paso, the signs and flowers spoke the truth - Las Cruces Bulletin - Column - October 3, 2019

     


     I passed by the flowers, the signs, and the memorials near the Walmart in El Paso twice during the month of August.   

     The first time, on August 6, there were reporters, satellite dishes with mobile remote vans, chaplains, and people silently praying.  There was a woman who was holding a sign that read, “Free Hugs.”   I went up to her and said that her sign might be the most important one there.  

     We may not realize how much expressions of love and concern, including hugs, beginning with the earliest days in our lives, can enable us to build positive relationships and lead us to reject hatred and violence.  

      On August 3, in El Paso, Texas, and early on August 4, in Dayton, Ohio, two very different individuals, harboring a desire to commit violence, did not see human beings in front of them.  They cared nothing for the people whose lives they abruptly ended.  

      El Paso and Dayton community members are moving forward while engaging in acts of remembrance and resolve. 

      People from Las Cruces joined their El Paso neighbors in a vigil held on the night of August 4 at Ponder Park.  The City of Las Cruces organized a local gathering on August 5.   About 60 people joined us at Temple Beth-El for a spiritual response and memorial service on August 7.  

     I joined my fellow Jewish singer/songwriter Alison Westermann in providing music at an event at the Las Americas Immigrant Advocacy Center on August 4.  Manuel and Patricia Oliver, parents of Joaquin Oliver, one of the victims of the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, had already planned to visit El Paso so that Manuel could create a mural on the outside of the Center’s building.  Participants in a nearby vigil in El Paso (to remember the shooting victims) marched in silence to the Las Americas Center for the mural dedication.  Manuel Oliver finished his work with the words “El Paso No Esta Solo.”  

      Nor are we alone.  When I again visited the memorial near the Walmart on August 22, I saw many signs that bore messages which encourage us to connect with one another to offer support and hope: 

    • Love still lives here
  • We are the future and the future is full of love. Sincerely, the Youth of El Paso
  • We will push back against boundless hate, and rebuild ourselves with boundless love. 
  • We are El Paso: White, Black, Mexican, Asian...Color doesn’t matter, Religion doesn’t matter. We love!  We are united!  We are together!  We are family!  We are one! 
  • Hate has no place!  We will never forget! 
  • Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. (Martin Luther King, Jr.)  I choose love!
  • The Lord is close to the broken-hearted.  He rescues those whose spirits are crushed (Psalm 34:18)
  • Believe there is good in the world. 
  • Where there is hate,  let us find love; where there is injury, let us find healing; where there is despair, let us find hope; where there is darkness, let us find light; where there is discord, let us find unity. (Based on a prayer of St. Francis of Assisi)

  And if I were to add a sign of my own, I would say: “May we remove the borders and walls around our hearts so that we will walk, side-by-side, towards a place of true peace, soon, in our time.” 

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

To sense the lingering light - Original reading for Daily Minyan - November 15, 2022

The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah

Overland Park, KS

Facebook Live Daily Minyan Original Reading 

November 15, 2022


Wellspring of all existence, 

Sustainer of our very lives, 

As the darkness of night arrives

Open our eyes

And hearts

And Minds 

to sense the lingering light

Within our souls

That moves us

To act with kindness

To spread hope 

To teach decency

To lead with integrity

To speak with sincerity

To sing with joy and passion 

And may that light 

Bring hope to humanity 

So that it will be encompassed and blessed

By the Oneness that binds the universe together

Within Your enduring presence.



Wednesday, November 9, 2022

Making this day different - November 9, 2022- Original Reading for Temple B’nai Jehudah Daily Minyan

Original Reading - Facebook Live Daily Minyan
The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah, Overland Park, KS
November 9, 2022

 Source of creation, 
Soul of the universe
What made this day different from 
Those that came before
And those that will follow?
The sun rose and set.
The hours passed.
Did we take the opportunity
To reach out to someone important to us 
To focus on our own well being
To add something new to our accumulated knowledge
To share our hopeful spirit with others
To teach others to act with compassion and decency
So that the human family might be suffused
With a little more hope than yesterday 
That will increase even more tomorrow? 
This is how we bring light to our existence
So that Your presence will shine
Even more brightly upon us
And so that Your teachings will guide us
To a future of unity and peace.

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

Under this Moon - Thoughts on the November 8, 2002 Lunar Eclipse from an observer

Under this moon,
Newly concealed for brief moments
Early on this morning, 
Some are sleeping.  
Some are awake.  
Everyone in this country
And on this planet, 
Gaze at this moon in wonder. 
I don’t know what hopes and ideals
Are in the minds and hearts of others. 
I have always thought 
That our presence together 
Should lead us to share our amazement
To seek common ground 
To recognize that this cosmic event
Should remind us that 
So much is not in our control 
And that there is so much we don’t know 
About the workings of the universe
And the possibilities within creation,
Meaning that 
We should be humble and accepting
Of the realities all around us. 
Some would suggest and impose understandings
That ignore and even reject existing diversity 
Others might say that there is no reason to acknowledge
That we all deserve an opportunity to stand together 
Within the same awe 
As equals 
As this earth continues on its incredible journey. 
I will not impose, ignore, or reject 
Actual truth and accumulated knowledge
Put forth not by those who seek power, 
But by those fellow members of humanity 
Who still see miracles 
In the heavens, in beautiful landscapes 
And in the desire to act with compassion and decency
That will allow the eclipse to end
And let the light shine once again.

(Original lunar eclipse photo on a cloudy morning, 4:21 am CST, Overland Park, KS)